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Tuesday, February 05, 2008 8:55:00 PM

Self Centered People Live Miserable Lives

Sometimes the things I hear makes my jaws drop. I thought these things only happen in award winning dramas. Too bad no prizes are given for what has happened.. only widen our eyes and see carefully who are the ones you can truly call friends.

We try our best to be inclusive and welcoming always hoping that one day our negative impressions towards certain people will change. We are all humans and are entitled to our own views but we always hope for the best.

Time and again when they do not reciprocate and instead try to hurt your feelings and relationships with others all while making themselves look like victims. I can only say that these people are scheming, narrow minded humans who only think for themselves. And because of their inferior complex, they also want to make your life as miserable as theirs.

Although I'm a third party in this issue but I know that people who are part of this saga are strong and their conscience is clear. They will not be affected by your negativity and self centeredness. Probably saddened by the death friendships ruined by YOU, manipulative, scheming little snake.

Perhaps you're not a fan of friendships because your tiny little brain can only think about yourself doesn't give you the authority to stop your intimate partner from meeting his long time friends ( which includes an ex girl friend). And to ruin their friendship bond is totally despicable.

Why do we have to always think about your feelings when we hold gatherings? And now we ALL know what feelings you're referring to. Gatherings are meant for people to catch up, network and maintain good relations. If you feel uncomfortable, just decline or let someone know properly, why kick up a big fuss? You want us to keep in mind how you'll feel when you see the ex girlfriend whom previously had an intimate relationship with of your husband-to-be in the same room as you? TRY THINKING OF HER FEELINGS WHEN SHE SEES YOU (someone who's having sex with her ex-boyfriend and who's now your husband-to-be)!!

I don't think the ex girlfriend is very bothered since she's happily attached. But my point is, why do you have to make yourself feel so miserable? Everybody has a past, and it's like the 21st century already, HELLO! And I believe you're not all pure and chaste when your attached to him. I was so worked up when I heard this story, I wanted to slap this person " Wake up your idea lor!' And the saga doesn't end here but I don't wish to talk about it as it'll bring us to another (but related) whole big issue.

Really.. You bring all these insecurities and bad reputation upon yourself. The fuss that you've been kicking up really serves the purpose of entertaining us during dinner gatherings. Seriously, I don't think why my friends should even bother to ask you out in future.

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