My dear H really has a way to make me laugh and cry at the same time.. We were having our usual phone conversation and I brought up the topic about my mom expecting me to buy a present for her for Mothers Day.

K: Sian.. Mom expects me to buy a present for her.. Eh.. So next time how? Will you do the same thing for me?
H: What...... I will give you cards..
K: Huh -__- Cards not counted leh..
H: I can give you flowers too..
K: Cards and flowers are a GIVEN..

*********** more arguing and laughter later****************

K: So you will end up one year give card , one year dun give right!
H: No.. I will one year give, TWO years dun give.. Wahahaha
K: !@#$%^&
H: Or one year give card, next year go POPYEYES, the year after we will go Manhattan Fish Market for their flaming platter for 2!!

I really feel like crying at this point but what he said sound ridiculously funny I was laughing away.

K: Damn.. I need reassurance that this wouldn't happen in future when we are married!
H: Of course wouldn’t happen la.. If not next day kenna frying pan!

Then another argument about frying pans arose

K: I suspect you will get me a frying pan in the future… Super unromantic.
K: I need you to reassure me that I will not be getting frying pans or frying pans equivalents during special days.
H: I will reassure you that I will tie the frying pan with a ribbon before giving it to you.
K: -__-
H: What’s wrong with frying pans? They are very useful. And you wouldn’t be getting it every year since they can last very long. I can get you something else. Ah! Deep fryer!
K: -__- -__-

不用多说了

I am not becoming materialistic, am I? Tell me, who in their right mind want to receive a frying pan or a deep fryer or equivalent on special occasions??!!! Totally zero romance can!! Sobs! I really hope this stays as a joke and not become a reality nightmare…


It’s not like I’m asking for the moon and stars… Well a dance under the stars would be nice… A surprise party? A round the island spin at night? A surprise holiday? (When we are financially capable of course)

Sighs… I need a knight to sweep me off my feet and shower me with romance until I’m smothered by it. And what is romance anyway, I am so confused..

Romance vs reality… Who will win?

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